zaroorat

"Duniya main is se ziyada achhi koi baat nahi ke kisi ko aap ki zaroorat nahi. Kiunke kisi ki zaroorat insaan pe bara bojh daal deti hai - aur insaan ko bara kamzor ker deti hai...... Ye to achha hai ke ab tumhe meri zaroorat nahi"

Zindagi main kuch log aap ko thori der ke liye milte hain magar ta-hayat ghere naqoosh chor jaate hain.

Meri zindagi main bohut hi aese kum mauqe (occasions) aaye honge jub main apni bisat se ziyada roya. aur aj ka din un me sa aik ha.
agay najany aur kitny din aysy ayey gy. jin ka me sochti hu k mujh ma samna karny ki himmat nahi....

Baqol Hazrat Ali: "Badnaseeb hai woh shaks jise dost na mile, aur us se bhi ziyada badnaseeb hai woh shaks jo achhe doston ko kho de" !

Habib Jalib's Mainay Uss Say Yeh Kaha

میں نے اس سے یہ کہا



یہ جو دس کروڑ ہیں



جہل کا نچوڑ ہیں



ان کی فکر سو گئی



ہر امید کی کرن



ظلمتوں میں کھو گئی



یہ خبر درست ہے



ان کی موت ہوگئی



بے شعور لوگ ہیں



زندگی کا روگ ہیں



اور تیرے پاس ہے



ان کے درد کی دوا





حبیب جالب کی یہ نظم کچھ حسبِ موقع لگی ہے۔

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Destiny & courage

"Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."

Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women to win them

sach ye ha k

"Suna hai - mard ke dil ka raasta uske pet(stomach) se ho ker jata hai"
"Nahi - Mard ke dil ka raasta uski Ma se ho ker jaata hai"

The Hidden Power of the Heart

When the heart is enlivened again, it feels like the sun coming out after a week of rainy days. There is hope in the heart that chases the clouds away. Hope is a higher heart frequency and as you begin to reconnect with your heart, hope is waiting to show you new possibilities and arrest the downward spiral of grief and loneliness. It becomes a matter of how soon you want the sun to shine. Listening to the still, small voice in your heart will make hope into a reality.

i think i am hopping for the best...

i heard sad voices and happy voices comes from my heart and my mind.
i got tense when i heard sad voices.... i dnt want to be sad dont want to be tense... i dont know what to do....

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Jawab-e-Shikwah by Allama Iqbal

dil ko cho jany wala shikwa aur jawab e shikwa. agar dil sa suno to ankhen pur num ho jaen. jasy me rony lagi thi ye sun kar.
i wish i could be a gud muslim. as ALLAH want me.

TUM EK GORAKH DHANDHA HO

Kabhi yehan tumhein dhoondha kabhi wahan puhancha
Tumhari Deed Ki Khatir Kahan Kahan puhancha
Ghareeb mit gaye, Pamaal ho gaye lekin
Kissi talak na tera aaj tak nishan puhancha
Ho bhi nahin aur...
Ho bhi nahin aur har jaa ho
Tum Ek Gorakh dhandha ho...




Nit naye naqsh banatay ho mita dete ho
Jaane kis jurm-e-tamana ki saza dete ho
Kabhi kankar ko bana dete ho heeray ki kani
Kabhi heeron ko bhi mitti mein mila dete ho
Jindagi kitnay hi murdon ko ata ki jiss ne
Woh maseeha bhi saleebon pe saja dete ho
Khwahish-e-deed jo kar baithe sar-e-toor koi
Toor hi bark-e-tajalli se jala dete ho
Naar-e-namrood mein dalwatay hu khud apna khaleel
Khud hi phir naar ko gulzaar bana dete ho
Chahe kinaan mein phainko kabhi mahe in aan
Noor yakuub ki aankhon ka bujha dete ho
Becho yusuf ko kabhi misr ke baazaaron mein
Akhir-e-kaar shah-e-misr bana dete ho
Jazb-o-masti ki jo manzil pe puhanchta hai koi
Baith kar dil mein an-al-haq ki sada dete ho
Khud hi lagwatay ho phir kufr ke fatway uss par
Khud hi mansoor ko sooli pe charha dete ho
Apni hasti bhi woh ik roz ganwa baithta hai
Apne darshan ki lagan jis ko laga dete ho
Koi raanjha jo kabhi khoj mein nilklay tumkar
Tum ussay jhang ke bele mein rula deta ho
Justajoo le ke tumhari jo chale kais koi
Uss ko majnoon kissi laila ka bana dete ho
Jot sassi ke agar mann mein tumhari jaagay
Tum usse tapte huay thal mein jala dete ho
Sohni gar tum ko mahiwal tasawwur kar le
Uss ko biphri hui lehron mein baha dete ho
Khud jo chaaho to sar-e-arsh bula kar mehboob
Ek hi raat mein mairaaj kara dete ho


Aap hi apna parda ho
Aap hi apna pardaa ho
Tum ek gorakh dhandha ho

Jo kehta hoon maana, tumhein lagta hai bura sa
Phir bhi hai mujhe tum se baharhaal gila sa
Chup chaap rahe dekthe tum Arsh-e-Bareen par
Tapte huay karbal mein Muhammad ka nawasa
Kiss tarhe pilata tha lahoo apna wafa ko
Khud teen dinon se wo agarche tha piyasa
Dushman to bahar taur thay dushman magar afsos
Tum ne bhi faraham na kiya paani zara sa
Har zulm ki taufeeq hai zalim ki wirasat
Mazloom ke hissay mein tassali na dilasa
Kal taaj saja dekha tha jiss shakhs ke sar par
Hai aaj ussi shakhs ke hathon mein hikasa
Yeh kya hai agar poochoon to kehte ho jawaban
Iss raaz se ho sakta nahin koi shanasa



Hairat ki ek duniya ho
Hairat ki ek duniya ho
Tum ek gorakh dhandha ho

Har ek jaa pe ho lekin pata nahin maaloom
Tumhara naam suna hai nishaan nahin maaloom

Dil se arman jo nikal jaaye to jugnoon ho jaye
Aur aankhon mein simat aaye to aansoo ho jaye
Japeya huu ka jo be huu kare huu mein kho kar
Uss ko sultaniyan mil jayen wo ba huu jo jaye
Baal beeka na kissi ka ho churri ke neeche
Halk-e-asghar mein kabhi teer tarazoo ho jaye



Kiss kadar be-niyaz ho tum bhi
Daastaan-e-daraaz ho tum bhi



Aah-e-Tehkeek mein har gam pe uljhan dekhoon
Wohi haalat-o-khayalat mein an ban dekhoon
Ban ke reh jaata hoon tasweer pareshani ki
Ghaur se jab bhi kabhi duniya ka darpan dekhoon
Ek hi khaak pe fitrat ke tazaadat itnay
Kitnay hisson mein bata ek hi aangan dekhoon
Kahin zehmat ki sulagti hui patjhar ka samaan
Kahin rehmat ke baraste huay sawan dekhoon
Kahin phunkaarte darya, kahin khamosh pahaar
Kahin jangal, kahin sehra, kahin gulshan dekhoon
Khun rulata hai yeh takseem ka andaaz mujhe
Koi dhanwaan yehan par koi nirdhan dekhoon
Din ke haathon mein faqat ek sulagta sooraj
Raat ki maang sitaron se muzzayyan dekhoon
Kahin murjhaaye huay phool hain sacchai ke
Aur kahin jhoot ke kaanton pe bhi joban dekhoon
Shams ki kaal kahin khichti nazar aati hai
Kahin sarmad ki uttarti hui gardan dekhoon
Raat kya shai hai saweera kya hai
Yeh ujala yeh andhera kya hai
Mein bhi nayib hun tumhara akhir
Kyon yeh kehte ho ke tera kya hai


Dekhne wala tujhe kya dekhta
Tu ne har har samt se parda kiya

Masjid Mandir...
Masjid, Mandir, Yeh Maikhane
Koi yeh maane, koi woh maane
Masjid, Mandir, Yeh Maikhane
Koi yeh maane, koi woh maane
Sab tere hain jaana aashanay
Koi yeh maane, koi woh maane
Ek honay ka tere kaayil hai
Inkaar pe koi maayil hai
Asleeyat lekin tu jaane
Koi Yeh maanay koi woh maane
Ek khalk mein shamil karta hai
Ek sab se akela rehta hai
Hain dono teray mastaanay
Koi yeh maanay koi woh maane
sab hain jab aashiq tumhare naam ke
kyon yeh jhagre hain raheem-o-raam ke




Dehr mein tu, Haram mein tu
Dehr mein tu, Haram mein tu
Arsh pe tu, jameen pe tu
Dehr mein tu, Haram mein tu
Arsh pe tu, jameen pe tu
Jiss ki puhanch jahan talak
Uss ke liye wahin pe tu



Har ek rang mein yakta ho
Tum ek gorakh dhandha ho

Markaz-e-Justajoo, Alam-e-rang-o-boo
Dam badam jalwagar tu hi tu chaar soo
Hoo ke mahol mein, kuch nahin fi-la-hoo
Tum buhat dil ruba, Tum buhat khubaroo
Aarsh ki azmatein, Farsh ki abroo
Tum ho konain ka, hasil-e-arzoo
Aankh ne kar liya aansoo-on se wazoo
Ab to kar do ata deed ka ek sudoo
Aao parde se tum aankh ke rubaroo
Chund lamhe milan, do ghari guftagoo
Naaz jabta phiray, jabaja koo-ba-koo
Wahda-hoo Wahda-hoo
La-shareek-a-La-hoo
Allah hoo Allah hoo
Allah hoo Allah hoo
Allah hoo Allah hoo Allah hoo
Allah hoo Allah hoo Allah hoo

Shikwah by Allama Iqbal

Map of Humanity

Happy New Year

Everything created solves a problem.

“Everything created solves a problem.” – Mike Murdock

Your eyes see, your ears hear, your nose smells. Doctors solve medical problems, lawyers solve legal problems. Your shirt keeps you warm; your watch tells you the time. Everything created solves a problem.

I believe you were created to solve a problem and your success is dependent on your ability to discover that problem and solve it. Finding this problem is discovering your purpose, solving this problem is accomplishing your purpose.

Today I want to discuss 7 questions that will help you discover your purpose.

7 Questions to Help You Discover Your Purpose:

1.What do you love to do?
Your purpose is directly related to what you love. The most purposeful people in the world spend their time doing what they love. Bill Gates loves computers, Oprah loves helping, and Edison loved to invent. What do you love? Is it reading, writing, playing sports, singing, painting, business, selling, talking, listening, cooking, fixing broken things. Whatever you love, it’s directly related to your purpose.


2.What do you do in your free time?
Whatever you do in your free time is a sign of your purpose. If you like to paint in your free time, then that’s a “sign.” If you like to cook, then that’s a sign, if you like to talk, then that’s a sign. Follow the signs.

I love to learn in my free time, I have an obsession with learning. Of course, this is a sign of my purpose …which is to teach.

What do you do in your free time? What would you like to do if you had more free time? Would you teach dance a class or a business course?


3.What do you notice?
A salesman notices an uninspiring sales pitch, a hairdresser notices someone’s hair is out of place, a designer notices a awkward outfit, a mechanic hears something wrong with your car, a singer notices when someone’s voice is out of pitch, a speaker notices an uninspiring speech.

What do you notice? What annoys you?

I notice when information is not presented in a clear, practical, and simplistic form. This is a sign of my purpose. I’m obsessed with practicality and simplicity. When I teach, I try to teach in a very practical and simple way.


4.What do you love to learn about?
What kinds of books or magazines do you like to read? Do you read about cooking, business, or fishing, whatever it is, it’s a sign. I’m always reading about self development, particularly as it relates to successful living. Of course this is also related to my purpose, which is to teach people how to succeed.

What do you love to learn about? If you have a library, what books do you have in that library?


5.What sparks your creativity?
Is it painting, designing, building, speaking, or selling?

Writing sparks my creativity. I often feel like a sculptor or painter when I write. I carefully sculpt ideas on paper, ideas that impacts people’s lives; it’s a very creative process. Each word must be crafted for maximum impact.

What sparks your creativity, do you have ideas for new food recipes, or a new creative automotive Web site?


6.What do people compliment you on?
What “fans” do you have? If no one likes your cooking, then you probably won’t make a good chef.

Do people compliment your writing, or your singing, or your amazing ability to sell? Once again, this is a sign of your purpose.

People always compliment me on my speaking ability, something I was too frightened to do for most of my life. I find it intriguing that my purpose was hidden in something that I was frightened to do.


7.What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?
Would you start a salon, go on American Idol, start your own business? What would you do if success was guaranteed? It’s a sign to your purpose.

I’d do what I’m doing right now, which is teaching. Nothing is more important to me, what about you?
In Closing
These questions are signs to your purpose. They’re pointing you in the direction of a specific purpose. One question alone doesn’t tell the whole story; you must look at all of your answers collectively. Each answer is a piece of the “purpose” puzzle.

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maa ki azmat

میری ماں ہمیشہ سچ نہیں بولتی۔۔۔
آٹھ بار میری ماں نے مجھ سے جھوٹ بولا۔۔۔
٭یہ کہانی میری پیدائش سے شروع ہوتی ہے۔۔میں ایک بہت غریب فیملی کا اکلوتا بیٹا تھا۔۔ہمارے پاس کھانے کو کچھ بھی نہ تھا۔۔۔اور اگر کبھی ہمیں کھانے کو کچھ مل جاتا تو امی اپنے حصے کا کھانا بھی مجھے دے دیتیں اور کہتیں۔۔تم کھا لو مجھے بھوک نہیں ہے۔۔۔یہ میری ماں کا پہلا جھوٹ تھا۔
٭جب میں تھوڑا بڑا ہوا تو ماں گھر کا کام ختم کر کے قریبی جھیل پر مچھلیاں پکڑنے جاتی اور ایک دن اللہ کے کرم سے دو مچھلیاں پکڑ لیں تو انھیں جلدی جلدی پکایا اور میرے سامنے رکھ دیا۔میں کھاتا جاتا اور جو کانٹے کے ساتھ تھوڑا لگا رہ جاتا اسے وہ کھاتی۔۔۔یہ دیکھ کر مجھے بہت دکھ ہوا ۔۔میں نے دوسری مچھلی ماں کے سامنے رکھ دی ۔۔اس نے واپس کر دی اور کہا ۔۔بیٹا تم کھالو۔۔تمھیں پتہ ہے نا مچھلی مجھے پسند نہیں ہے۔۔۔یہ میری ماں کا دوسرا جھوٹ تھا۔
٭جب میں سکول جانے کی عمر کا ہوا تو میری ماں نے ایک گارمنٹس کی فیکٹری کے ساتھ کام کرنا شروع کیا۔۔اور گھر گھر جا کر گارمنٹس بیچتی۔۔۔سردی کی ایک رات جب بارش بھی زوروں پر تھی۔۔میں ماں کا انتظار کر رہا تھا جو ابھی تک نہیں آئی تھی۔۔میں انھیں ڈھونڈنے کے لیے آس پاس کی گلیوں میں نکل گیا۔۔دیکھا تو وہ لوگوںکے دروازوں میں کھڑی سامان بیچ رہی تھی۔۔۔میں نے کہا ماں! اب بس بھی کرو ۔۔تھک گئی ہوگی ۔۔سردی بھی بہت ہے۔۔ٹائم بھی بہت ہو گیا ہے ۔۔باقی کل کر لینا۔۔تو ماں بولی۔۔بیٹا! میں بالکل نہیں تھکی۔۔۔یہ میری ماں کا تیسرا جھوٹ تھا
٭ایک روز میرا فائنل ایگزام تھا۔۔اس نے ضد کی کہ وہ بھی میرے ساتھ چلے گی ۔۔میں اندر پیپر دے رہا تھا اور وہ باہر دھوپ کی تپش میں کھڑی میرے لیے دعا کر رہی تھی۔۔میں باہر آیا تو اس نے مجھے اپنی آغوش میں لے لیا اور مجھے ٹھنڈا جوس دیا جو اس نے میرے لیے خریدا تھا۔۔۔میں نے جوس کا ایک گھونٹ لیا اور ماں کے پسینے سے شرابور چہرے کی طرف دیکھا۔۔میں نے جوس ان کی طرف بڑھا دیا تو وہ بولی۔۔نہیں بیٹا تم پیو۔۔۔مجھے پیاس نہیں ہے۔۔یہ میری ماں کا چوتھا جھوٹ تھا۔
٭ میرے باپ کی موت ہوگئی تو میری ماں کو اکیلے ہی زندگی گزارنی پڑی۔۔زندگی اور مشکل ہوگئی۔۔اکیلے گھر کا خرچ چلانا تھا۔۔نوبت فاقوں تک آگئی۔۔میرا چچا ایک اچھا انسان تھا ۔۔وہ ہمارے لیے کچھ نہ کچھ بھیج دیتا۔۔جب ہمارے پڑوسیوں نے ہماری ی حالت دیکھی تو میری ماں کو دوسری شادی کا مشورہ دیا کہ تم ابھی جوان ہو۔۔مگر میری ماں نے کہا نہیںمجھے سہارے کی ضرورت نہیں ۔۔۔یہ میری ماں کا پانچواں جھوٹ تھا۔
٭جب میں نے گریجویشن مکمل کر لیا تو مجھے ایک اچھی جاب مل گئی ۔۔میں نے سوچا اب ماں کو آرام کرنا چاہیے اور گھر کا خرچ مجھے اٹھانا چاہیے۔۔وہ بہت بوڑھی ہو گئی ہے۔۔میں نے انھیں کام سے منع کیااور اپنی تنخواہ میں سے ان کے لیے کچھ رقم مختص کر دی تو اس نے لینے سے انکار کر دیا اور کہا کہ ۔۔تم رکھ لو۔۔۔میرے پاس ہیں۔۔۔مجھے پیسوں کی ضرورت نہیں ہے۔۔یہ اس کا چھٹا جھوٹ تھا۔
٭میں نے جاب کے ساتھ اپنی پڑھائی بھی مکمل کر لی تو میری تنخواہ بھی بڑھ گئی اور مجھے جرمنی میں کام کی آفر ہوئی۔۔میں وہاں چلا گیا۔۔۔۔ سیٹل ہونے کے بعد انھیں اپنے پاس بلانے کے لیے فون کیا تو اس نے میری تنگی کے خیال سے منع کر دیا۔۔اور کہا کہ مجھے باہر رہنے کی عادت نہیں ہے۔۔میں نہیں رہ پاوں گی۔۔۔یہ میری ماں کا ساتواںجھوٹ تھا۔
٭میری ماں بہت بوڑھی ہو گئی۔۔انھیں کینسر ہو گیا۔۔انھیں دیکھ بھال کے لیے کسی کی ضرورت تھی۔۔میں سب کچھ چھوڑ چھاڑ کر ان کے پاس پہنچ گیا۔۔وہ بستر پر لیٹی ہوئی تھیں۔۔مجھے دیکھ کر مسکرانے کی کوشش کی۔۔۔میرا دل ان کی حالت پر خون کے آنسو رو رہا تھا۔۔۔وہ بہت لاغر ہو گئی تھیں۔۔میری آنکھوں سے آنسو نکل آئے۔۔تو وہ کہنے لگیں ۔۔مت رو بیٹا۔۔۔ میں ٹھیک ہوں ۔۔مجھے کوئی تکلیف نہیں ہو رہی۔۔۔یہ میری ماں کا آٹھواں جھوٹ تھا۔۔۔اور پھر میری ماں نے ہمیشہ کے لیے آنکھیں بند کر لیں ۔

جن کے پاس ماں ہے۔۔۔اس عظیم نعمت کی حفاطت کریںاس سے پہلے کہ یہ نعمت تم سے بچھڑ جائے۔
اور جن کے پاس نہیں ہے۔۔ہمیشہ یاد رکھنا کہ انھوں نے تمھارے لیے کیا کچھ کیا۔۔اور ان کی مغفرت کے لیے دعا کرتے رہنا

nice

Sorry, You can put the blame on me!

As life goes on I'm starting to learn more and more about responsibility
And I realize that everything I do is affecting the people around me
So I want to take this time out to apologize for things that
I've done things that haven't occurred yet
and things that they don't want to take responsibility for

I'm sorry for the times that I left you home
I was on the road and you were alone
I'm sorry for the times that I had to go
I'm sorry for the fact that I did not know

That you were sitting home just wishing we
Could go back to when it was just you and me
I'm sorry for the times I would neglect
I'm sorry for the times I disrespect

I'm sorry for the wrong things that I've done
I'm sorry I'm not always there for my sons
I'm sorry for the fact that I'm not aware
That you can't sleep at night when I am not there

Because I'm in the streets like everyday
I'm sorry for the things that I did not say
Like how you are the best thing in my world
And how I'm so proud to call you my girl

I understand that there's some problems
And I'm not too blind to know
All the pain you kept inside you
Even though you might not show

If I can't apologize for being wrong
Then it's just a shame on me
I'll be the reason for your pain
And you can put the blame on me

You can put the blame on me (4x)
Said you can put the blame on me (3x)
You can put the blame on me

I'm sorry for the things that he put you through
And all the times you didn't know what to do
I'm sorry that you had to go and sell those bags
Just trying to stay busy until you heard from dad

When you would rather be home with all your kids
As one big family with love and bliss
And even though pops treated us like kings
He got a second wife and you didn't agree

He got up and left you there all alone
I'm sorry that you had to do it on your own
I'm sorry that I went and added to your grief
I'm sorry that your son was once a thief

I'm sorry that I grew up way to fast
I wish I would of listened and not be so bad
I'm sorry that your life turned out this way
I'm sorry that the feds came and took me away

I understand that there's some problems
And I'm not too blind to know
All the pain you kept inside you
Even though you might not show

If I can't apologize for being wrong
Then it's just a shame on me
I'll be the reason for your pain
And you can put the blame on me

Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
Said you can put the blame on me
You can put the blame on me

I'm sorry that it took so long to see
But they were dead wrong trying to put it on me
I'm sorry that it took so long to speak
But I was on tour with Gwen Stefani

I'm sorry for the hand that she was dealt
And for the embarrassment that she felt
She's just a little young girl trying to have fun
But daddy should of never let her out that young

I'm sorry for Club Zen getting shut down
I hope they manage better next time around
How was I to know she was underage
In a 21 and older club they say

Why doesn't anybody want to take blame
Verizon backed out disgracing my name
I'm just a singer trying to entertain
Because I love my fans I'll take that blame

Even though the blame's on you
Even though the blame's on you
Even though the blame's on you
I'll take that blame from you

And you can put that blame on me
And you can put that blame on me
You can put that blame on me
You can put that blame on me

And you can put that blame on me

And you can put that blame on me

when you say nothing at all

It�s amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word you can light up the dark
Try as I may I could never explain
What I hear when you don�t say a thing

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There�s a truth in your eyes sayin� you�ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you�ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all

All day long I can hear people talking out loud
But when you hold me near, you drown out the crowd
Old mr. webster could never define
What�s being said between your heart and mine

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There�s a truth in your eyes sayin� you�ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you�ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There�s a truth in your eyes sayin� you�ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you�ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all