baaz auqat rukna bohot mushkil ho jata ha. aur baaz auqaat aagay chalna mushkil nahi na mumkin hota ha.
ye jo chehry hoty han inhen parha karo. dunia ki sab sa behatren kitab hoty han. kahi kitab ka getup umda hota ha, magar andar ki tehrer ghatiya hoti ha. kahi mamooli kaghzaat par aala darjy ki tehreer hoti ha.
kabi chehry ki tehrer bot waza ho kar b parny ko dil nai karta.
wo jany anjany me boohot andhery rasty par nikal ae ha. usay ye bhi nahi maloom k ye rasta band ha. kahi nahi jaata. aur me jab sa soch rahi hu k us ka kia ho ga.
kuch loog andhery me bhatakty huay bhi roshni ki tammanna zarur karty han. aur in ko in andhero se pyar hota ha. wo zindagi k in andhery ka ik hisssa ban chuky hoty han.
me waqt ko zaya nahi karti, waqt ne mujhy zaya kia ha.
me janti hu insan k hosly ko utna hi azmana chahiye jitna us me hosla ho, insan ko kisi unchi kursi par bitha dyna us ki izzat afzae nahi. us k sath zulm ha.
Showing posts with label hate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label hate. Show all posts
Saturday, February 06, 2010
Saturday, January 16, 2010
50 Ways To Make Yourself Miserable
What Not To Do/be
So here goes the 50 ways to make yourself miserable.
50 Ways To Make Yourself Miserable
1.Compare yourself frequently with others.
2.Belittle yourself.
3.Don’t believe in dreams. You believe dreams will only happen when you are sleeping.
4.Say yes to everybody and everything.
5.Work in a job you hate.
6.Complain about everything.
7.Complain about everything to your friends.
8.Suspicious of everything.
9.Counting your troubles.
10.Harbor negative thoughts.
11.Trying to please everyone and let everyone walk all over you.
12.Constantly thinking about the past.
13.Constantly thinking about the future.
14.Focusing on what you lack.
15.Focusing on what you don’t want.
16.Need others to validate you constantly.
17.Think of everything that can possibly go wrong in your life.
18.Get jealous easily.
19.Envious of others and is never grateful of what you have instead.
20.Imitating others due to lack of self confidence.
21.Lacking self esteem and cause others to dislike you.
22.Think the world revolves around you.
23.Judging others.
24.Absorbing all the bad news in the papers daily.
25.Eating junk food.
26.Exercising is your worst nightmare.
27.Believe that things can only go your way.
28.Do not accept others opinion.
29.Lack of sleep.
30.Lack of goals.
31.Worry consistently about the sky is falling.
32.Plan but never take action.
33.Fail to plan.
34.Feel that people around you are all jerks.
35.Thinking there is no purpose in living.
36.Being the “If Man”. If my father is the president, then I will be successful. If ____ then I will be _____. (fill in the blanks)
37.Lottery is the only way to success.
38.Trying to control everything that you can’t control.
39.Expect to be appreciated.
40.Expect others to be grateful to you.
41.Never forget about criticism.
42.Hate people around you to be successful.
43.Shirk responsibilities.
44.Receive and never give.
45.Do things that are easy.
46.Overworking.
47.Never forgive.
48.Never give your best effort in things you do.
49.Perfectionism.
50.Choosing to be miserable.
So here goes the 50 ways to make yourself miserable.
50 Ways To Make Yourself Miserable
1.Compare yourself frequently with others.
2.Belittle yourself.
3.Don’t believe in dreams. You believe dreams will only happen when you are sleeping.
4.Say yes to everybody and everything.
5.Work in a job you hate.
6.Complain about everything.
7.Complain about everything to your friends.
8.Suspicious of everything.
9.Counting your troubles.
10.Harbor negative thoughts.
11.Trying to please everyone and let everyone walk all over you.
12.Constantly thinking about the past.
13.Constantly thinking about the future.
14.Focusing on what you lack.
15.Focusing on what you don’t want.
16.Need others to validate you constantly.
17.Think of everything that can possibly go wrong in your life.
18.Get jealous easily.
19.Envious of others and is never grateful of what you have instead.
20.Imitating others due to lack of self confidence.
21.Lacking self esteem and cause others to dislike you.
22.Think the world revolves around you.
23.Judging others.
24.Absorbing all the bad news in the papers daily.
25.Eating junk food.
26.Exercising is your worst nightmare.
27.Believe that things can only go your way.
28.Do not accept others opinion.
29.Lack of sleep.
30.Lack of goals.
31.Worry consistently about the sky is falling.
32.Plan but never take action.
33.Fail to plan.
34.Feel that people around you are all jerks.
35.Thinking there is no purpose in living.
36.Being the “If Man”. If my father is the president, then I will be successful. If ____ then I will be _____. (fill in the blanks)
37.Lottery is the only way to success.
38.Trying to control everything that you can’t control.
39.Expect to be appreciated.
40.Expect others to be grateful to you.
41.Never forget about criticism.
42.Hate people around you to be successful.
43.Shirk responsibilities.
44.Receive and never give.
45.Do things that are easy.
46.Overworking.
47.Never forgive.
48.Never give your best effort in things you do.
49.Perfectionism.
50.Choosing to be miserable.
Sunday, January 10, 2010
heart attack
I want to write few words from one of my prev. post: ".......Is kaainat main kub saare sawalon ke jawab milte hain. Koi formula nahi chalta. Kisi mantiq ki chul theek nahi bethti. Hum saari zindagi jaanne ki tag-o-do main lage rehte hain magar saara kuch is dil ke maanne se hai. Agar dil ko qarar aa jaaye to koi maujiza naqabile yaqeen nahi rehta. Kuch bhi namumkin nahi rehta. Falsafa chale na chale magar jo baat, jo cheez is dil ki dharkan ki ley(tune) se murtaish (vibrate) ho jaaye - wahi haq, wahi sach ! Sala ye kambakht dil !!.."
Pain was so severe that night, savage heart
wanted to confront each vein
diaphoresed from each sweat gland
(my heart was)
Like far at your patio
each petal washed in my despondent blood
appear morose with grace of moonlite glow
Like in my deserted body
tents of all aching threads openly
start giving signs serially (of)
farewell of (my) passions' flock
And when appeared somewhere under smoldering lites of remembrance
one last moment of your affection
pain was so intense that (heart) wanted to pass it on
We did want to stay though, heart did not desire so
Pain was so severe that night, savage heart
wanted to confront each vein
diaphoresed from each sweat gland
(my heart was)
Like far at your patio
each petal washed in my despondent blood
appear morose with grace of moonlite glow
Like in my deserted body
tents of all aching threads openly
start giving signs serially (of)
farewell of (my) passions' flock
And when appeared somewhere under smoldering lites of remembrance
one last moment of your affection
pain was so intense that (heart) wanted to pass it on
We did want to stay though, heart did not desire so
Thursday, January 07, 2010
zindagi har roz class lyti ha
bara dushwar hota ha, zara sa Faisla karna, K Zindagi ki kahani ko, Biyan-o-bazabnko, kaha sa yad rakhna ha, kaha se bhol jana ha, kisy kitna batana ha, ki say kitna chupana ha, kaha hans hans k rona ha, kaha ro ro k hansna ha, kaha awaz daini ha, kaha khamosh rehna ha, kaha rasta badalna ha, kaha sy lot ana ha. bara dushwar hota ha, zara sa faisla karna.
بڑا دشوار ہوتا ہے
ذرا سا فیصلہ کرنا
کہ جیون کی کہانی کو
بیانِ بے زبانی کو
کہاں سے یاد رکھنا ہے
کہاں سے بھول جانا ہے
اِسے کتنا بتانا ہے
اِسے کتنا چھپانا ہے
کہاں رو رو کے ہنسنا ہے
کہاں ہنس ہنس کے رونا ہے
کہاں آواز دینی ہے
کہاں خاموش رہنا ہے
کہاں رَستہ بدلنا ہے
کہاں سے لوَٹ آنا ہے
(سلیم کوثر)
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Habib Jalib's Mainay Uss Say Yeh Kaha
میں نے اس سے یہ کہا
یہ جو دس کروڑ ہیں
جہل کا نچوڑ ہیں
ان کی فکر سو گئی
ہر امید کی کرن
ظلمتوں میں کھو گئی
یہ خبر درست ہے
ان کی موت ہوگئی
بے شعور لوگ ہیں
زندگی کا روگ ہیں
اور تیرے پاس ہے
ان کے درد کی دوا
حبیب جالب کی یہ نظم کچھ حسبِ موقع لگی ہے۔
Monday, September 14, 2009
anger result
When we consciously choose a core heart feeling over a negative feeling, we effectively intercept the physiological stress response that drains and damages our systems and allow the body's natural regenerative capacities to work for us. Instead of being taxed and depleted, our mental and emotional systems are renewed. As a consequence, they are better able to ward off future "energy eaters" like stress, anxiety and anger before they take hold.
Monday, September 07, 2009
Become a Lie Detector
How to Detect Lies
Become a Lie Detector
Introduction to Detecting Lies:
The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police, and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.
Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.
Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:
• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.
• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.
Emotional Gestures & Contradiction
• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.
• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.
• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”
• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.
Interactions and Reactions
• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.
• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.
Verbal Context and Content
• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”
•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”
• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.
• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.
• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.
Related Books:
Never be Lied to Again
Body Language
Other signs of a lie:
• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.
• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
Final Notes:
Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.
Most lie detecting experts agree that a combination of body language and other cues must be used to make an educated guess on whether someone is telling the truth or a lie.
Become a Lie Detector
Introduction to Detecting Lies:
The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police, and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.
Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.
Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:
• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.
• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.
• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.
Emotional Gestures & Contradiction
• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.
• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.
• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”
• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.
Interactions and Reactions
• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.
• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.
• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.
Verbal Context and Content
• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”
•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”
• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.
• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.
• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.
• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.
Related Books:
Never be Lied to Again
Body Language
Other signs of a lie:
• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.
• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
Final Notes:
Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.
Most lie detecting experts agree that a combination of body language and other cues must be used to make an educated guess on whether someone is telling the truth or a lie.
Friday, July 24, 2009
tere sawaalon ke
pighle se armaan hain, do pal ke mehmaan hai
aankhon ke aalon mein, chaahat ki lo jalne do
tere sawaalon ke woh jawaab jo main de na, de na sakuun
keh rahi hai jo nazar tujhe hai khabar ke nahi,
keh rahi hai teri nazar tu bekhar toh nahi,
tere bina jindagi hai adhuri, tere bina kya hai jeena
pighle se armaan hain, do pal ke mehmaan hai
aankhon ke aalon mein, chaahat ki lo jalne do
tum kaho toh main rok luun, jo tum kaho toh nahi,
sine mein hai kaisi khalish, teri kashish toh nahi,
tere bina jindagi hai adhuri, tere bina kya hai jeena
pighle se armaan hain, do pal ke mehmaan hai
aankhon ke aalon mein, chaahat ki lo jalne do
tere sawaalon ke woh jawaab jo main de na de na sakuun
Friday, April 17, 2009
forgiving and forgetting.
I would like to hear your opinion on forgiving and forgetting. When people hurt you: do you forgive and forget? Or do you just forgive but don’t forget?
People who tend to be seen as good – usually forgive and forget. But I don’t think that this is a question of being good or evil – I think the point is about being just. So maybe the tendency to forgive and forget those that have hurt us is not necessarily a good thing. Because if we don’t do anything to people that hurt us – they will probably continue on hurting others.
This is the way I see it and I would like to hear you about this subject and also your own experiences.
People who tend to be seen as good – usually forgive and forget. But I don’t think that this is a question of being good or evil – I think the point is about being just. So maybe the tendency to forgive and forget those that have hurt us is not necessarily a good thing. Because if we don’t do anything to people that hurt us – they will probably continue on hurting others.
This is the way I see it and I would like to hear you about this subject and also your own experiences.
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Sorry quotes
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I'm not supposed to love you, I'm not supposed to care, I'm not supposed to live my life wishing you were there. I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you do...I'm sorry I can't help myself, I'm in love with you.
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I'm not supposed to love you, I'm not supposed to care, I'm not supposed to live my life wishing you were there. I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you do...I'm sorry I can't help myself, I'm in love with you.
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“I don't know if I continue, even today, always liking myself. But what I learned to do many years ago was to forgive myself. It is very important for every human being to forgive herself or himself because if you live, you will make mistakes- it is inevitable. But once you do and you see the mistake, then you forgive yourself and say, 'well, if I'd known better I'd have done better,' that's all. So you say to people who you think you may have injured, 'I'm sorry,' and then you say to yourself, 'I'm sorry.' If we all hold on to the mistake, we can't see our own glory in the mirror because we have the mistake between our faces and the mirror; we can't see what we're capable of being. You can ask forgiveness of others, but in the end the real forgiveness is in one's own self. I think that young men and women are so caught by the way they see themselves. Now mind you. When a larger society sees them as unattractive, as threats, as too black or too white or too poor or too fat or too thin or too sexual or too asexual, that's rough. But you can overcome that. The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself. If we don't have that we never grow, we never learn, and sure as hell we should never teach.”
Friday, March 13, 2009
mujhe sochne de
merii naakaam muhabbat kii kahaani mat chheR
apnii mayoos umaNgoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
zindagii talKh sahii, zahar sahii, sam* hi sahii
dard-o-aazaar sahii, jabr sahii, Gham hi sahii
lekin is dard-o-Gham-o-jabr kii vus’at ko to dekh
zulm kii chhaaNv meiN dam toRtii Khalqat ko to dekh
apnii mayoos umaNgoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
merii naakaam muhabbat ki kahaanii mat chheR
jalsa-gaahoN meiN ye vahshat-zadah sahme aNboh
rahguzaaroN pe falaakat zadah logoN ke giroh
bhook aur pyaas se paz-murdah siyaah-faam zamiiN
teerah-o-taar makaaN, muflis-o-beemaar makeeN
nau’e-insaaN meiN ye sarmaayaa-o-mehnat ka tazaadd
aman-o-tahzeeb ke parcham tale qaumoN ka fasaad
har taraf aatish-o-aahan ka ye sailaab-e-azeem
nit naye tarz pe hoti huii duniyaa taqseem
lahlahaate hue khetoN pe javaani ka samaaN
aur dahqaan ke chhappaR meiN na battii na dhuaaN
ye falak-bos mileiN, dilkash-o-seemeeN baazaar
ye Ghalaazat ye jhapaT_te hue bhooke baazaar
door saahil pe vo shaffaaf makaanoN ki qataar
sarsaraate hue pardoN meiN simaT_te gulzaar
dar-o-deevaar pe anvaar ka sailaab ravaaN
jaise ik shaayar-e-madhosh ke KhwaaboN ka jahaaN
ye sabhii kyoN hai ye kyaa hai, mujhe kuchh sochne de
kaun insaaN ka Khudaa hai, mujhe kuchh sochne de
apni maayuus umangoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
merii naakaam muhabbat ki kahaanii mat chheR
Glossary:
talKh = bitter
sam = poison
dard-o-aazaar = pain and troubles
jabr = opression
dard-o-Gham-o-jabr = pain, sorrows and opression
vus’at = open space, big open space
Khalqat = the world
jalsa-gaahoN = the places of celebrations
vahshat-zadah = inflicted with fear
aNboh (or amboh) = crowd, mob
rahguzaaroN = roads
falaakat-zadah = mistry struck, evil struck
giroh = crowd, mob
paz-murdah = withered, decayed
siyaah-faam = blackened
teerah-o-taar = dark
makaaN = houses
muflis-o-beemaar = poor and sick
makiiN = residents
nau’e-insaaN = mankind
sarmaayaah = reward
mehnat = work
tazaadd = contradiction, inconsistency
aman-o-tehzeeb = peace and civilization
parcham = flag? (and from the dictionary: the fringed bunch or tassel of a spear or lance, or of a pair of colours)
qaumoN = sects
fasaad = fights, arguments
aatish-o-aahan = fire and iron
sailaab-e-azeem = great flood
tarz = fashion, style of conduct, manner of way
taqseem = division
dahqaan = villager
falak-bos = kissing the skies
mileiN = mills
dilkash-o-seemeeN = beautiful and delicate (seemeeN means made of silver)
Ghalaazat = roughness, rudeness
shaffaaf = clear… (white / clean?)
qataar = line
anvaar = light
apnii mayoos umaNgoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
zindagii talKh sahii, zahar sahii, sam* hi sahii
dard-o-aazaar sahii, jabr sahii, Gham hi sahii
lekin is dard-o-Gham-o-jabr kii vus’at ko to dekh
zulm kii chhaaNv meiN dam toRtii Khalqat ko to dekh
apnii mayoos umaNgoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
merii naakaam muhabbat ki kahaanii mat chheR
jalsa-gaahoN meiN ye vahshat-zadah sahme aNboh
rahguzaaroN pe falaakat zadah logoN ke giroh
bhook aur pyaas se paz-murdah siyaah-faam zamiiN
teerah-o-taar makaaN, muflis-o-beemaar makeeN
nau’e-insaaN meiN ye sarmaayaa-o-mehnat ka tazaadd
aman-o-tahzeeb ke parcham tale qaumoN ka fasaad
har taraf aatish-o-aahan ka ye sailaab-e-azeem
nit naye tarz pe hoti huii duniyaa taqseem
lahlahaate hue khetoN pe javaani ka samaaN
aur dahqaan ke chhappaR meiN na battii na dhuaaN
ye falak-bos mileiN, dilkash-o-seemeeN baazaar
ye Ghalaazat ye jhapaT_te hue bhooke baazaar
door saahil pe vo shaffaaf makaanoN ki qataar
sarsaraate hue pardoN meiN simaT_te gulzaar
dar-o-deevaar pe anvaar ka sailaab ravaaN
jaise ik shaayar-e-madhosh ke KhwaaboN ka jahaaN
ye sabhii kyoN hai ye kyaa hai, mujhe kuchh sochne de
kaun insaaN ka Khudaa hai, mujhe kuchh sochne de
apni maayuus umangoN ka fasaanaa na sunaa
merii naakaam muhabbat ki kahaanii mat chheR
Glossary:
talKh = bitter
sam = poison
dard-o-aazaar = pain and troubles
jabr = opression
dard-o-Gham-o-jabr = pain, sorrows and opression
vus’at = open space, big open space
Khalqat = the world
jalsa-gaahoN = the places of celebrations
vahshat-zadah = inflicted with fear
aNboh (or amboh) = crowd, mob
rahguzaaroN = roads
falaakat-zadah = mistry struck, evil struck
giroh = crowd, mob
paz-murdah = withered, decayed
siyaah-faam = blackened
teerah-o-taar = dark
makaaN = houses
muflis-o-beemaar = poor and sick
makiiN = residents
nau’e-insaaN = mankind
sarmaayaah = reward
mehnat = work
tazaadd = contradiction, inconsistency
aman-o-tehzeeb = peace and civilization
parcham = flag? (and from the dictionary: the fringed bunch or tassel of a spear or lance, or of a pair of colours)
qaumoN = sects
fasaad = fights, arguments
aatish-o-aahan = fire and iron
sailaab-e-azeem = great flood
tarz = fashion, style of conduct, manner of way
taqseem = division
dahqaan = villager
falak-bos = kissing the skies
mileiN = mills
dilkash-o-seemeeN = beautiful and delicate (seemeeN means made of silver)
Ghalaazat = roughness, rudeness
shaffaaf = clear… (white / clean?)
qataar = line
anvaar = light
Thursday, March 12, 2009
khudaa-e-bartar terii zameeN par,
khudaa-e-bartar terii zameeN par, zameeN ki Khaatir, ye jaNg kyoN hai?
har ik fatah-o-zafar ke daaman pe Khuun-e-insaaN ka raNg kyoN hai?
zameeN bhi teri, haiN ham bhi tere, ye milkiyat ka savaal kyaa hai?
ye qatl-o-KhuuN ka rivaaj kyoN haiN? ye rasm-o-jaNg-o-jadaal kyaa hai?
jinheiN talab hai jahaan bhar ki unhiiN ka dil itnaa taNg kyoN hai?
Khudaa-e-bartar terii zameeN par, zameeN ki Khaatir, ye jaNg kyoN hai?
Ghareeb maaoN, shareef behnoN ko amn-o-izzat kii zindagii de
jinheiN ataa kii hai tuu ne taaqat, unheiN hidaayat kii roshnii de
saroN meiN kibr-o-Gharoor kyoN hai? diloN ke sheeshe pe zaNg kyoN hai?
Khudaa-e-bartar terii zameeN par, zameeN ki Khaatir ye jaNg kyoN hai?
qazaa ke raste pe jaanevaaloN ko bach ke aane kii raah dena
diloN ke gulshan ujaR na jaayeiN, muhabbatoN ko panaah dena
jahaaN meiN jashn-e-vafaa ke badle, ye jashn-e-teer-o-tufaNg kyoN hai?
Khudaa-e-bartar teri zameeN par, zameeN ki Khaatir, ye jaNg kyoN hai?
har ik fatah-o-zafar ke daaman pe Khuun-e-insaaN ka raNg kyoN hai?
zameeN bhi teri, haiN ham bhi tere, ye milkiyat ka savaal kyaa hai?
ye qatl-o-KhuuN ka rivaaj kyoN haiN? ye rasm-o-jaNg-o-jadaal kyaa hai?
jinheiN talab hai jahaan bhar ki unhiiN ka dil itnaa taNg kyoN hai?
Khudaa-e-bartar terii zameeN par, zameeN ki Khaatir, ye jaNg kyoN hai?
Ghareeb maaoN, shareef behnoN ko amn-o-izzat kii zindagii de
jinheiN ataa kii hai tuu ne taaqat, unheiN hidaayat kii roshnii de
saroN meiN kibr-o-Gharoor kyoN hai? diloN ke sheeshe pe zaNg kyoN hai?
Khudaa-e-bartar terii zameeN par, zameeN ki Khaatir ye jaNg kyoN hai?
qazaa ke raste pe jaanevaaloN ko bach ke aane kii raah dena
diloN ke gulshan ujaR na jaayeiN, muhabbatoN ko panaah dena
jahaaN meiN jashn-e-vafaa ke badle, ye jashn-e-teer-o-tufaNg kyoN hai?
Khudaa-e-bartar teri zameeN par, zameeN ki Khaatir, ye jaNg kyoN hai?
Saturday, February 07, 2009
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Muhabbat ki Haqeeqat - I
Muhabbat karnay waly ko apny mehbob se koi gharz, koi talab nahi hoti. wo to apnay mehboob se badlay me kuch b nahi mangta. muhabbad bhi nahi, iltfat ki aik nazar bhi nahi. wo to bss muhabbat kiye jata ha , kiu k muhabbad aik khud kar jazba ha, jo dil me khud ba khud ubharta ha. to muhabbat karny wala to muhabat karny par majbor ho jata ha. wo koi shart aed nahi karta. ye muhabat nahi k mehbob jawab me muhabat na dy to usay chor kar kisi aur se muhabat kar lo. YE to PHIR karobar HUA.
Upper wala khayal ki tarah kisi ko muhabbat bhi somp dyta ha.
muhabbad pak aur buland jazba ha. aur ye mehdood bhi nahi. ma bayty se muhabat karti ha, Banda mabood se muhabat karta ha. muhabat kisi ko kisi seb ho sakti ha. KISI MARD ko KISI AURAT se ho sakti ha. LAKIN Muhabbad ki Bunyad JISM KABHI NAHI hota. Is ki buniyad achy ausaaf bhi nahi hoty. Mehboob ka zahir bhi nahi hota, kiu k muhabbad lafani jazba ha. Admi borha ho jaiye to JISM dhal jata ha. Muhabbat kabhi khatam nahi hoti, chahy koi burae b samnay a jaiye. chahy Jism dhal jaiye, chahy Insan mar jaiye.
Insaan dosray insaan se sirf muhabat hi kar sakta ha, lakin insaan ko ALLAH se muhabbat karni chahiye kisi fani shye se nahi, KABhi ISHQ nahi. kiu k isht to Sirf Aik MABOOD ALLAH se hi ho sakta ha. Aur jis ko ho jiaye wo khushnaseeb ha.
lines from Ishq Ka Sheen by Aleemul-haq-haqi
Upper wala khayal ki tarah kisi ko muhabbat bhi somp dyta ha.
muhabbad pak aur buland jazba ha. aur ye mehdood bhi nahi. ma bayty se muhabat karti ha, Banda mabood se muhabat karta ha. muhabat kisi ko kisi seb ho sakti ha. KISI MARD ko KISI AURAT se ho sakti ha. LAKIN Muhabbad ki Bunyad JISM KABHI NAHI hota. Is ki buniyad achy ausaaf bhi nahi hoty. Mehboob ka zahir bhi nahi hota, kiu k muhabbad lafani jazba ha. Admi borha ho jaiye to JISM dhal jata ha. Muhabbat kabhi khatam nahi hoti, chahy koi burae b samnay a jaiye. chahy Jism dhal jaiye, chahy Insan mar jaiye.
Insaan dosray insaan se sirf muhabat hi kar sakta ha, lakin insaan ko ALLAH se muhabbat karni chahiye kisi fani shye se nahi, KABhi ISHQ nahi. kiu k isht to Sirf Aik MABOOD ALLAH se hi ho sakta ha. Aur jis ko ho jiaye wo khushnaseeb ha.
lines from Ishq Ka Sheen by Aleemul-haq-haqi
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Manzilo Pe Aa Ke Lootate Hai Dilon Ke Caaravaan
Kashtiya Saahil Pe Aksar Doobati Hai Pyaar Ki
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Jab Kadam Hi Saath Naa De To Musaafir Kyaa Kare
Yoon To Hai Humdard Bhi Aur Humsafar Bhi Hai Meraa
Badh Ke Koyi Haath Naa De Dil Bhalaa phir Kyaa Kare
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Doobne Waale Ko Tinke Kaa Sahaaraa Hi Bahot
Dil Bahal Jaaye Fakat Itnaa Ishaaraa Hi Bahot
Itne Par Bhi Aasmaan Waalaa Giraa De Bijaliyaan
Koi Batlaa De Zaraa Yeh Doobtaa phir Kyaa Kare
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Pyaar Karnaa Jurm Hai To Jurm Hum Se Ho Gayaa
Kaabil-E-Maafi Huaa Karte Nahin Aise Gunaah
Sangdil Hai Yeh Jahaan Aur Sangdil Meraa Sanam
Kyaa Kare Josh-E-Junoon Aur Hauslaa phir Kyaa Kare
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Jab Kadam Hi Saath Naa De To Musaafir Kyaa Kare
Yoon To Hai Humdard Bhi Aur Humsafar Bhi Hai Meraa
Badh Ke Koyi Haath Naa De Dil Bhalaa phir Kyaa Kare
Kashtiya Saahil Pe Aksar Doobati Hai Pyaar Ki
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Jab Kadam Hi Saath Naa De To Musaafir Kyaa Kare
Yoon To Hai Humdard Bhi Aur Humsafar Bhi Hai Meraa
Badh Ke Koyi Haath Naa De Dil Bhalaa phir Kyaa Kare
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Doobne Waale Ko Tinke Kaa Sahaaraa Hi Bahot
Dil Bahal Jaaye Fakat Itnaa Ishaaraa Hi Bahot
Itne Par Bhi Aasmaan Waalaa Giraa De Bijaliyaan
Koi Batlaa De Zaraa Yeh Doobtaa phir Kyaa Kare
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Pyaar Karnaa Jurm Hai To Jurm Hum Se Ho Gayaa
Kaabil-E-Maafi Huaa Karte Nahin Aise Gunaah
Sangdil Hai Yeh Jahaan Aur Sangdil Meraa Sanam
Kyaa Kare Josh-E-Junoon Aur Hauslaa phir Kyaa Kare
Manzile Apni Jagah Hai Raaste Apni Jagah
Jab Kadam Hi Saath Naa De To Musaafir Kyaa Kare
Yoon To Hai Humdard Bhi Aur Humsafar Bhi Hai Meraa
Badh Ke Koyi Haath Naa De Dil Bhalaa phir Kyaa Kare
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Ek Ajab Si Paheli Hai Zindagi,
Ek Ajab Si Paheli Hai Zindagi,
Sabke Saath Hote Huye Bhi, Akeli Hai Zindagi,
Kabhi Tu Ek Piyaara Sa Armaan Hai Zindagi,
To Kabhi Dard Se Bharaa Tufaan Hai Zindagi
Kabhi To Gulon Se Bharaa Gulistan Hai Zindagi,
To Kabhi Kanton Se Bhaara Raasta Hai Zindagi,
Kabhi Phulon Jaisi Masoom Ho Jati Hai Zindagi,
To Kubhi Gunahon Ka Bojh Ban Jati Hai Zindagi
Koi To Bataa De Mujhe Kya Hai Zindagi ?
Sunaa Hai Chand Roz Ki Mehmaan Hai Zindagi,
Zindagi Ko Chhod Ek Din Jaana Padegaa,
Mott Ko Uss Pal Galen Lagaana Paregaa,
Zindagi Se Chahe Jitnaa Piyaar Tum Kar Lo,
Hoti To Aakhir Bewaffa Hai Zindagi
Sabke Saath Hote Huye Bhi, Akeli Hai Zindagi,
Kabhi Tu Ek Piyaara Sa Armaan Hai Zindagi,
To Kabhi Dard Se Bharaa Tufaan Hai Zindagi
Kabhi To Gulon Se Bharaa Gulistan Hai Zindagi,
To Kabhi Kanton Se Bhaara Raasta Hai Zindagi,
Kabhi Phulon Jaisi Masoom Ho Jati Hai Zindagi,
To Kubhi Gunahon Ka Bojh Ban Jati Hai Zindagi
Koi To Bataa De Mujhe Kya Hai Zindagi ?
Sunaa Hai Chand Roz Ki Mehmaan Hai Zindagi,
Zindagi Ko Chhod Ek Din Jaana Padegaa,
Mott Ko Uss Pal Galen Lagaana Paregaa,
Zindagi Se Chahe Jitnaa Piyaar Tum Kar Lo,
Hoti To Aakhir Bewaffa Hai Zindagi
Thursday, December 11, 2008
who like what?
Dunia ko muskuraty huay chand chehry pasand hoty han, un ko sarahty aur un hi ko sir ankho par bithaty han.jin ki ankher roshan hon, na k nam hon.
jin ka chehra phol ki tarah khila ho, na k khizan ki tarah ujra hua. chahy khizan lany wali dunia hi kiu na ho.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
mujhe gale se lagaa lo, bahut udaas hoon main
Aasha:
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nazar mein teer se chubhate hain ab nazaaron se
main thak gai hoon sabhi tootate sahaaron se
ab aur bojh na daalo
Rafi:
bahut sahi, gam-e-duniyaa, magar udaas na ho
kareeb hai shab-e-gam ki, sahar udaas na ho
bahut sahi
sitam ke haath ki talavaar toot jaayegi
ye uunch-neech ki deewaar toot jaayegi
tujhe kasam hai meri hamasafar udaas na ho
Aasha:
na jaane kab ye tarika ye taur badlega
sitam ka gam kab musibat ka daur badlega
mujhe jahaan se uthaa lo, bahut udaas huun main
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[/caption]nazar mein teer se chubhate hain ab nazaaron se
main thak gai hoon sabhi tootate sahaaron se
ab aur bojh na daalo
Rafi:
bahut sahi, gam-e-duniyaa, magar udaas na ho
kareeb hai shab-e-gam ki, sahar udaas na ho
bahut sahi
sitam ke haath ki talavaar toot jaayegi
ye uunch-neech ki deewaar toot jaayegi
tujhe kasam hai meri hamasafar udaas na ho
Aasha:
na jaane kab ye tarika ye taur badlega
sitam ka gam kab musibat ka daur badlega
mujhe jahaan se uthaa lo, bahut udaas huun main
Monday, October 20, 2008
koii ummiid bar nahen aatii, I am left with no hope at all,
koii ummiid bar nahii.n aatii
koii suurat nazar nahii.n aatii
maut kaa ek din mu'ayyaa.N hai
nii.nd kyo.n raat bhar nahii.n aatii
aage aatii thii haal-e-dil pe ha.Nsii
ab kisii baat par nahii.n aatii
jaanataa huu.N savaab-e-taa'at-o-zahad
par tabiiyat idhar nahii.n aatii
hai kuchh aisii hii baat jo chup huu.N
varna kyaa baat kar nahii.n aatii
kyo.n na chiiKhuu.N ki yaad karate hai.n
merii aavaaz gar nahii.n aatii
daaG-e-dilagarnazar nahii.n aata
buu bhii ai chaaraagar nahii.n aatii
ham vahaa.N hai.n jahaa.N se ham ko bhii
kuchh hamaarii Khabar nahii.n aatii
marate hai.n aarazuu me.n marane kii
maut aatii hai par nahii.n aatii
kaabaa kis muu.Nh se jaaoge 'Ghalib'
sharm tumako magar nahii.naatii
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I am left with no hope at all,
No possibility to reach my goal,
The Day of my death is fixed,
I am so very anxious that I can not sleep all night.
Though I know the reward of obedience and worship,
But I have no tendency for it.
I am silent for a certain reason,
Otherwise I can convince you with my words,
Why I shouldn’t cry,
For when I don’t, she asks about me,
My heart is burning, though you cannot see the spot,
But O my doctor, can’t you smell my heart burn?
I have reached to a certain state,
From where even I cannot find myself.
I am dying (Waiting anxiously) for my death,
I don’t know where the hell my death has gone.
With what face you will go to Ka’ba, O! Ghalib,
You should be ashamed of yourself while thinking to go there
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koii suurat nazar nahii.n aatii
maut kaa ek din mu'ayyaa.N hai
nii.nd kyo.n raat bhar nahii.n aatii
aage aatii thii haal-e-dil pe ha.Nsii
ab kisii baat par nahii.n aatii
jaanataa huu.N savaab-e-taa'at-o-zahad
par tabiiyat idhar nahii.n aatii
hai kuchh aisii hii baat jo chup huu.N
varna kyaa baat kar nahii.n aatii
kyo.n na chiiKhuu.N ki yaad karate hai.n
merii aavaaz gar nahii.n aatii
daaG-e-dilagarnazar nahii.n aata
buu bhii ai chaaraagar nahii.n aatii
ham vahaa.N hai.n jahaa.N se ham ko bhii
kuchh hamaarii Khabar nahii.n aatii
marate hai.n aarazuu me.n marane kii
maut aatii hai par nahii.n aatii
kaabaa kis muu.Nh se jaaoge 'Ghalib'
sharm tumako magar nahii.naatii
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I am left with no hope at all,
No possibility to reach my goal,
The Day of my death is fixed,
I am so very anxious that I can not sleep all night.
Though I know the reward of obedience and worship,
But I have no tendency for it.
I am silent for a certain reason,
Otherwise I can convince you with my words,
Why I shouldn’t cry,
For when I don’t, she asks about me,
My heart is burning, though you cannot see the spot,
But O my doctor, can’t you smell my heart burn?
I have reached to a certain state,
From where even I cannot find myself.
I am dying (Waiting anxiously) for my death,
I don’t know where the hell my death has gone.
With what face you will go to Ka’ba, O! Ghalib,
You should be ashamed of yourself while thinking to go there
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Does He Really Love Me?
From the Blog of "Crystal of Light and Love 5" a Psychic Advisor on Keen
Love is expressed in many ways. Some men are able to use the words, "I love you," while others feel awkward or uncomfortable when trying to verbalize their feelings. Perhaps your guy grew up in a family that discouraged direct expression of love. Or maybe in the past he declared his love to a woman and she rejected him. You just want love! No games! No drama! But you are having a difficult time knowing if your man has genuine feelings for you.
- "Does he really love me or does he just want sex?"
- "Is he the one or should I keep on looking?"
- "What did he mean by that comment?"
- "Is he being honest or just being nice?"
- "Is he too good to be true?"
Even if your man has trouble expressing his feelings, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. It just means that he's not good at communication... that is something that can improve over time. The expression of love is different with each individual; you know someone loves you by the way they treat you. A man might show his love for you by fixing your car.
Sometimes when your guy does not use the L-word with you, it's because he is not aware of your feelings. He hasn't picked up your signals of interest. You may have to make your interest known so that he will notice and can respond with mutual interest. Some men get confused or are shy and need to be guided to love. But if this guy does not respond in kind, he is not the one for you.
You may decide to love him all the more without really knowing his feelings. This can be risky and painful. You may believe that he's tragically blocked from sharing love to you only to find out that he has no trouble openly sharing "love" with another woman. Or some men will use the words but not back up their professed love with loving actions. If you fall hard for a man, and he doesn't really show you that he loves you, he is probably using you for sex or another reason or just passing time with you until he finds a "real" girlfriend.
He Doesn't Love You When:
1. He doesn't treat you like a top priority in his life.
2. He's nice to you when it's convenient for him - like right before sex!
3. He checks out on you emotionally for long periods of time, and acts like you're crazy and/or needy for asking why.
4. He's openly critical of fundamental things about you that you can't change.
5. He seems to enjoy your company and encourages your involvement with him, but you sense that he is still on the lookout for something "better".
6. He shuts you out of big parts of his life - family, friends, and his past.
7. He keeps telling you that he's not good relationship material or he doesn't deserve you but doesn't discourage you from sleeping with him.
8. He takes no emotional risks for you, but doesn't object when you take emotional risks for him.
9. He gets irritated with the vulnerability you feel in the relationship and doesn't want to think about your feelings.
10. He rewards you for being "strong" and/or "understanding" when he does things that he knows hurt you! If he loved you, he wouldn't hurt you.
11. He sleeps with other women. He's not ready for a one on one relationship but wants those hot romantic nights with you!
Don't accept less than loving behavior in the hope of being loved. A man who has his emotional act together and is truly in love with you will want to make you happy. It will bring him pleasure. Just as hurting you will make him feel like he hurts himself and he'll try to figure out how to stop doing it!
The man who loves you will want you to feel as special and valued as you make him feel. He'll be willing to take risks for your love. He'll want to share himself and his life with you. He'll let the world know that you are his.
http://www.astrology.com/livereadings/article.php?cat_id=1&art_id=1
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